PolyTantric Coaching For Men

The concept and embodiment of 'being a Man' is often a dis-empowering program that creates a disconnect from our authentic expression, which includes the feminine aspect of ourselves.  We all hold a spectrum of masculine and feminine (Yin/Yang) energy.  The feminine quality of receptivity opens us into a channel of unconditional love that is available to us independently.  We access this healing energy through focusing our mind on our feelings, and into our heart space. As we fully receive ourselves, including any resistance we may experience, we open up the pathway to become whole within.

A lot of men were taught at an early age to “suck it up,” that crying is unacceptable and expressing how one felt could be viewed as weak, which is the ultimate insult to the Man ego. Men weren’t given a platform to share how they felt but instead were quickly told to move past it and “stay strong" and that they needed "to man up”.  This embodiment causes compartmentalization & the repression emotions, which in turn creates stagnant energy that blocks our energy centers, flow & authentic nature.  The 'Man Program' also teaches that rough and tough is the way to be, and that disregarding the care of their bodies is manly.  This hardens are physical vessels and disconnects us from the spectrum of sensations and pleasure available.

'Men' are cultivated into competition which creates separation and lack of intimacy, especially between two males. At the far end of the spectrum, men fall into 'Toxic Masculinity' which refers to the notion that some people’s idea of “manliness” perpetuates domination, homophobia, and aggression.  Toxic masculinity involves cultural pressures for men to behave in a certain way.  This idea that men need to act tough and avoid showing all emotions can be harmful to their mental health and can have serious consequences for society, which is how it became known as “toxic masculinity.”  Toxic masculinity creates trauma in our bodies, and effects our relationship with men at large.  The perception of "A Man" and the accompanied program is often assumed by people.  The program not only lives in men, but also in women.  For women, it not only can be a perception of someone else, it can also be an embodiment of themselves through the desire to dominate or compete in the world.  

Our sexuality is the most dis-empowering energy that can be suppressed by "The Man Program".  The Man Program also disconnects males from the desire to be vulnerable, receptive and to be penetrated.  As we further move into Unity Consciousness & The Golden Age Of Aquarius this program will dissolve, along with competition and separation it causes between males and all people. Sexual energy can be suppressed through fear, guilt, shame and grief.  These lower vibrations are perpetuated in the perpetration & victim-hood dynamics that run rampant in society. In Junguan Psychology, sexuality takes us deep into parts of ourselves of which we are only dimly aware, which clash with the way we’d like to present ourselves to the world. This is the part of the personality that Jung referred to as the shadow. For almost all of us, some aspects of our sexual identity are in the shadow and the unconscious. 

We are moving into a time where authenticity and vulnerability are finally being celebrated and recognized as a critical part of being a “whole” person. That strength is now being seen and recognized when one is able to share truthfully and openly one’s thoughts, fears, feelings, and desires. It is time to reignite our flame, own our desires and express ourselves more fully.

As you begin to work with a Tantrika and utilize Tantric Technology, you will begin to dismantle and release the negative qualities of the "Man Program".  As you learn to cultivate and hold space for Kundalini energy (advanced sexual energy) through Tantric meditative techniques and practices, a powerful space for transmutations of lower vibrations is created.  This will begin to catalyze the progress in shadow work and create your pathway to expanded peace, joy, love, pleasure, & inspiration in your Tantric Lifestyle.