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Tantra For Partners

Explore The Power Of Sex Magic

Dating, Boy/Girlfriend, Going Steady, Fiancé, Married, It’s Complicated… Or Just A Situationship.

There are many different types of 'romantic relationship’ programs in our culture.  These social constructs consist of assumptions, expectations & energy orchestrations that can negatively or positively affect how we run our own energy.  When we become conscience & intentional in creating our dream life it is essential to fine tune our relationships to positively impact our empowerment, self expression & creativity.

As you understand yourself at a deeper level, you can explore the details of your truth and desires, and be more authentic in your expression.  As you collaborate with a partner and support each other in this exploration, you open up the possibility of a more powerful way to create and explore life.

Tantric Partnership & Divine Sexual Union

When people hear of Tantra, they usually think about sex.  Yes, Tantra is a gateway to the most epic, transcendental, mind blowing sex ever, and also, it is much more! Tantra integrates spirituality and sexuality into a pathway for personal growth, discovering your purpose and feeling connected in co-creation with the universe! Spiritual Partnership and the practice of Tantra can be the most powerful way to expand and create.  This is the alignment of souls in creating their dreams.  As you align intentions and create a Tantric Lifestyle Blue Print, you can harness the full power of Sex Magic and create your the life you desire! 

This exploration of collaboration is a potent catalyst for empowerment, and at the highest level involves passion, intimacy and commitment.  This process can also be challenging and confusing.  Having an experienced Tantrika is essential in order to bring light into conversation when two shadows entangle into dis-empowering control dramas.  This entanglement seems to be an inevitable situation until a person has reached the highest states of consciousness.  As you expand your awareness through presence & learn to utilize The Studio X Alchemy techniques you will begin to understand the patterns of the collective unconscious Shadow a deeper level.

At The Studio X we will help you create a vision that aligns for you and your partner.  As you explore and discuss intentions, needs, desires, boundaries and all of life together a creative synergy beyond your wildest dreams is available.  Communication, collaboration, transparency, love, trust and freedom are key aspects of becoming synergistic .  The Studio X is ready to assist you!

Keeping Your Own Agency & Energy Centers OPEN

Often when people enter into partnerships they are looking to find fulfillment or happiness from another person.  They enter into a co-dependent relationship that represses emotions and limits their expression.  This causes stagnant energies to form in the Chakras and the diminishes PrAna (life force energy) flow.  The Practice Of White Tantra will assist you in keeping your own agency and PrAna circulating.

In the 'name of love' people often sacrifice their truth & hide their authentic feelings when they are attracted to other people.  They are might be afraid of doing the wrong thing, hurting or loosing their partner.  We are fed a story by society, school, friends, parents and religion on what the 'right thing' to do is.  When we are children, we are more vulnerable to be programmed, and unknowingly receive this 'malware', into our unconscious minds.  As we re-pattern our mind into the Tantric Philosophy we can release these judgements of right and wrong andthe  accompanied limiting emotions.  As we explore through the lens of TLC: Truth, Love and Choice we can become self realized in our souls true authenticity.  The understanding that making decisions from a place of Fear, Guilt, Shame and Grief is ultimately dis-empowering, allows us to form a new relationship with these energies so they can be released.  Honoring the process of Trauma release in our bodies is essential. We do not want to reject ourselves as we make decisions from lower vibrations, this is part of the process, and healing is not to be rushed. Let us witness ourselves with compassion, breath deeply and release. We will then shift naturally into higher timelines of expanded love, pleasure, peace and creativity. This is the pathway of Enlightenment; The ultimate purpose of Tantra.

Keep Passion Alive & Continue Dating

In The Studio X Tantric Lifestyle Approach we encourage everyone to continue The Tantric Dating Practice.  Open up the conversation of desires and fantasies with your partner.  As you build a bond with your partner of Commitment, Trust & Safety, we encourage partners who are ready, to be open to dates with other people.  This could be a 3-way date or separate 1-1 dates.  Often, one partner or another has an easier time dating outside of the primary partnership.  Being on the same team, encouraging and supporting each other in collaboration is the key. This process has proven to be a catalyst to personal development and bringing light to shadow aspects of ourselves.

Platonic intimacy is the foundation in the Studio X Tantric Dating Practice.  Remaining in integrity with yourself and your primary partner is essential when you explore.  Having other intimate relationships helps us so we are not looking to get all of our needs met by our primary partner.  This will also keep passion alive in your relationship, especially when you're married.  Remember, dates with other people can be platonic & do not have to be sexual.  Utilizing The Studio X Alchemy, the process of opening your heart to more people in platonic intimacy is a proven technique to expand in love and release non serving emotions.  Discussing your boundaries is key in Tantric Partnership & Dating.  Transparency, truth, love, choice & collaboration are essential in this process.  Including the honoring of shadow aspects, the process & time that it takes to come into integrity.  As long as we keep showing up in Truth and Love, Great Spirit has a pathway of Unity.  In The Studio X Tantric Lifestyle Approach, if you are dating other people outside your primary partnership it is key to personal development to have all parties be emotionally connected and share time together to reflect and process emotions.

The Triangular Theory Of Love & Conversation Mastery

Through NVC - A Guide To Conversations, Dating & Exploring Relationships

The "Triangular Theory Of Love" is an elemental tool in The Studio X Alchemy & Lifestyle Approach. This framework for relationships used in psychology identifies three main components: 

  1. Passion refers to feelings of excitement and attraction
  2. Intimacy refers to feelings of closeness and connection
  3. Commitment refers to the ongoing decision to stay in and nurture the relationship.

Depending on which of these three elements are present, partners can find themselves in one of seven different types of relationships:

  1. Infatuation: passion only
  2. Friendship: intimacy only
  3. Empty love: commitment only
  4. Romantic love: passion + intimacy
  5. Fatuous love: passion + commitment
  6. Companionate love: intimacy + commitment
  7. Consummate love: passion + intimacy + commitment

** Developed by psychologist Robert Sternberg, Ph.D., and fellow researchers throughout the 1980s and '90s, this relationship framework has been validated by research across 25 different countries1

 

NVC (non-violent communication) is another elemental tool in The Studio X Alchemy & Lifestyle Approach. The basics of NVC involve expressing ourselves with clarity, compassion, self-responsibility, empathy, and the common good in mind.

 
For example: Often we see an emotional projection of a partner exclaiming, "You're Not Committed To Me" projecting their emotional pain onto their partner.  First, as we understand that if we are not in alignment to be 'committed' to this partner in the way they desire, this is okay, and not necessarily a bad thing.  We can realize we are committed to our own Truth.  However, commitment with our partner is helpful in collaboration and synergy, if that is what you desire.  As we reclaim our innocence and extend this innocence to our partner, we can move into collaboration.  By utilizing the NVC framework and taking responsibility for our own emotions, we open into the common good in mind, and explore the needs of the relationship.  By holding empathy for each other we can open up a conversation to find clarity, and establish an agreement of boundaries.
 
Let's release judgment & zoom into details, we find that the definition of being ''committed'' does not necessary mean exclusivity, but definitely can if that is your agreed upon inspiration or need to feel safe.  Exclusivity, does not equate to sex necessarily, but also can.  Sex doesn't necessarily mean intercourse.  We can utilize the framework of Passion, intimacy & commitment to explore the details of relationships, desires and needs to form boundaries and agreements.
 

 

The Studio X Tantrikas are here to help coach you in this process!  We look forward to collaborating with you.

Your Solo Practice Is Always The Foundation

White Tantra

Remember, Your Solo White Tantra practice is the foundation of The Studio X Tantric Lifestyle.  As you explore partnership, maintaining your own practice of devotional space is essential.  This will assist you in keeping your own agency and the continued expansion into your highest expression.  

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