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Non-Conforming

Transcending Societal Programs & Identity

Gender Identity & Orientation Programs

A social construct of society

A social construct is a collective worldview that is held by a group of people that typically includes the rules that individuals are expected to follow. These rules can include guidelines for behavior, morality, and ethics.

These programs of society live in our unconscious minds and are the operating system by which our ego identifies & navigates life.  As we expand awareness, we can discover how to dissolve any programs that limit our expression. We can then discover an inner truth which shifts our perspectives and choices. This will automatically lead us into a higher vibration of flow state reality. This is the process of enlightenment, demystified.

Now let's release judgment and anchor into acceptance to explore in a mindful way.

Shiva

Masculine Polarity (Yang)

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Shakti

Feminine Polarity (Yin)

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Discovering Your Most Authentic Expression

In the Tantric practice we discover the balance between Shakti & Shiva, or Feminine & Masculine energy within us (Yin/Yang). We all hold a spectrum of these energy qualities. These polarities are the foundation of our internal chemistry and how we feel in our bodies. When we feel loving, sexy and pleasurable within ourselves, it is seen in our expression and our relationship with others. This is a highly magnetic embodiment which takes a certain degree of freedom and empowerment to hold.

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Our Soul, Gender Identity & Orientation

In The Tantric perspective you do not have to have a Lingam (penis) to run your energy primarily with Yang (Masculine).  Also, you do not need to have a Yoni (vagina) to run your energy primarily with Yin (Feminine) energy.   It is understood that there can be a female soul born into a male body or a male soul born into a female body. This understanding helps us open up to the diversity of gender identity and orientation in all people.

The energy of our soul is the baseline for our highest expressed self, free from social constructs and fear-based limitations. Society and it's programs often inhibit our authentic expression and confuse how we relate to ourselves and others. We are often programmed by our family, friends, teachers and all of society. This happens through words and emotional projections as we grow up, telling us 'who we are' and "how we should act"  based on our Biological Sex.

Chemistry is created within ourselves and between partners through the play of Feminine & Masculine energies (Yin/Yang). This polarity is independent from our assigned sex at birth or gender identity. We must feel safe within ourselves first in order to create chemistry. This is accomplished through releasing fear and opening the Root Chakra energy center. This is not just a thought, this is an embodied energy activation. As we explore ourselves more deeply & create a relationship with our Chakras (energy centers), we can learn to more powerfully create chemistry within ourselves and with others.

Assigned sex at birth (aka “biological sex”)?

 

Assigned sex is a label that you’re given at birth based on medical factors, including your genitals, hormones, and chromosomes.

  • A person with XX chromosomes usually has female sex and reproductive organs, and is therefore usually assigned biologically female.

  • A person with XY chromosomes usually has male sex and reproductive organs, and is therefore usually assigned biologically male.

Other arrangements of chromosomes, hormones, and body parts can happen, which result in someone being intersex. These qualities of our physical bodies are some of the aspects that effect the way we relate to the world. 

Through utilizing Tantric Technology and the tools available within The Studio X Alchemy, you can more powerfully discover your most authentic & highest expressed self. As we open up a more intimate connection with ourselves we can discover the spectrum of feminine and masculine (Yin/Yang) qualities within. Through the process of personal development and shadow work you will be guided to release non-serving energies and step into further empowerment, peace, joy, love & pleasure in your life.

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Yang, sacred masculine energy, represents Shiva, pure consciousness.
Yang is the electrical mental framework that feminine energy flows through.

THE PROPERTIES OF DIVINE MASCULINE

Presence – the ability to be here and now in and out of the body in a full connection.
The ability to penetrate – the life, the feminine and all the inner shadows. Done out of presence, tenderness, sweetness and desire to give.

Clarity – the deep connection to the spiritual worlds and the bringing of precision into this moment, the ability to see clearly the vision and the direction of realization.
Creating a safe and secure space – placing clear and healthy boundaries and structures – creates security while allowing the feminine to be all that it is.

Accurate communication – in listening, in speech, in presence, in sharing and in facilitation, the ability to be authentic and real.

Strength – the ability to fulfill, the power to break through, to give a clear direction and to persevere. The ability to exercise in life.

Testimony – the ability to be neutral and without judgment, deep observation in a moment without identification.
When healthy masculine energy is not nurtured, it becomes damaged and hurtful.

Other Characteristics: Leadership, Action, Reason, Logic, Adventure, Loyalty, Firmness, Protection, Confidence, Focus, Pride, Honor, Efficiency, Power & Caretaker

 

THE SHADOWS OF WOUNDED MASCULINE

Controlling and Planning – In the absence of true presence and trust, male energy tries to control, manipulate, and impose itself on the flow of life.

Confusion, blurring and lack of direction – when the ability to be present is dimmed, there is no direction, nowhere and how to penetrate and it creates paralysis and submission to what happens without the ability to decide and perform. Looks and feels like lack of backbone, damaged integrity and trust.

Aggressiveness – When the presence is weak, the ability to penetrate the world with presence, sweetness and softness is weakened, and then the masculine becomes difficult, aggressive, and even violent, perceptions of war, competition and survival are strengthened, instead of peace, cooperation and creativity.

Chaos and insecurity – when the ability to create clear and healthy boundaries does not exist, a chaotic and threatening space is created, there is nothing to define and create security. This is how exploitation is born, traumas, distrust and fears.
Lies – When the communication is inaccurate and unreal, false life is created. We walk on exhausting, painful paths, entrenchment in the self and inability to grow and develop.

Frenzy and internal noise – when observation and uneducated committees create internal noise, thoughts and feelings dominate the system, movement from the past to the future, lack of peace, satisfaction and quiet, self-judgment and external criticism.

 

Yang characteristics: active, positive, brightness, heaven, south slope, sunshine, fire, hardness, male, dryness, day-time, upward seeking, restless, producing, hot, even numbers, and dominant aspects of things.

Yin, sacred feminine energy, represents Shakti. 
This energy pulsates through you, though you sometimes forget to embrace it.  This is the Magnetic emotional energy.

Aspects Of Divine Feminine

Love – the energy of love itself, the ability to love and be loved, to let love itself flow through us, unconditional and without restrictions.  The cultivation of this energy is found in the heart space, through internal somatic awareness.  Gratitude, compassion and witnessing beauty are key aspects that ignite love.

Devotion and surrender – the ability to let go, to give in to the moment, to energy, to everything that exists, to everything that comes, to be the energy itself and to deepen within it in totality.

Radiation and the ability to develop – the glamor and beauty of life energy, the energy that attracts the masculine, is expressed in nature in radiant viscosity in all of nature.  The agreement and the ability to develop more and more, to delve deeper and deeper into devotion and love.

Energy in motion – all types of emotional energy movements, the ability to be total in them, and the ability to move from one emotional state to another in full devotion.

Acceptance – the ability to accept the existing, to deepen the liberation of the old, and to develop more and receive more and expand the channels of acceptance in our life.

Empathy, Nurture, Fluidity, Softness, Reception, Openness, Devotion, Creative, Compassion, Community, Feelings, Support, Intuition, Life, & Understanding.

The Shadow Aspects Of Wounded Feminine

Conditional love – When love does not reach its depths (mainly due to lack of masculine presence), love is limited to the exchange of energy, give and take games, love with conditions and laws.

Emotional Disconnection – When the ability to surrender and succumb is weakened, trust is weakened, defenses are created, energy rises to the top (heightened thinking and mind), and a disconnect is created from the emotional bodies.

Emotional drama – when feminine radiation is weakened and barriers are created from opening, feminine energy is stuck in pain and suffering and produces more and more painful emotional energy, a feeling of victimization activated and the mechanisms of guilt, applied internally and externally, patterns of revenge and punishment are intensified.

Closure and Opacity – When the ability to accept and receive is closed, the sexual energy is stuck, not renewed, not flowing, everything feels stressed, the detachment from life grows , the patterns of survival are activated and freedom is reduced.

Yin characteristics: passive, negative, darkness, earth, north slope, cloudy, water, softness, female, moisture, night-time, downward seeking, slowness, consuming, cold, odd numbers, and docile aspects of things.

 

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