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Private Tantra Sessions

Coaching, Embodiment & Erotic Devotion

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We welcome individuals & partners of all genders & orientations

In the Tantric practice we discover the balance between Shiva & Shakti, or masculine & feminine energy within us (Yin/Yang). We all hold a spectrum of these energy qualities. These polarities are the foundation of our internal chemistry and how we feel in our bodies.  When we feel loving, sexy and pleasurable within ourselves, it is seen in our expression and relationship with others.  This is a highly magnetic embodiment which takes a certain degree of freedom and empowerment to hold.

Through a process called shadow work, The Studio X Tantrikas will uncover aspects of yourself that are repressed and hidden from your conscious mind. We all have shadow aspects that we are in denial of, until we are fully enlightened.  Shadow work takes surrender and vulnerability for the process to work.  Your Tantrika will help guide you into a safe space for this process.  By utilizing sexual energy and as a catalyst for shadow work, we create a more potent space for healing and empowerment.

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Shiva

Masculine Polarity (Yang)

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Shakti

Feminine Polarity (Yin)

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Learning and expanding polarity

Tantric sexuality works through the play of polarity

When the practitioner has cultivated a certain degree of proficiency with the non-sexual Tantric practices, they are then taught how to apply this focus and intention to sexual pleasure practices, which will then catalyze even deeper and more profound healing of body, mind and spirit.

White Tantra

Solo Tantra Practice

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Red Tantra

Partner Practice
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Connecting to source energy & the fountain of youth

The Heart Space is the gateway for tapping into the infinite and vital source energy that is available through Tantra.  This energy center connects our primal nature (sexuality) to our spiritual essence (prAna).

Tantra is about celebrating your body and feeling heightened sensuality. The practice intertwines spirituality, sexuality, and a state of mindfulness. Tantra may be practiced alone or with a partner.

We can simplify application of Tantra into two principles:

  1. Tantra is an art & science of the study of energy
  2. Tantra is a comprehensive spiritual path for the evolution of the human soul and consciousness

The Technology of Tantra is hands down the most powerful catalyst for personal growth and shadow work. Utilizing the Tantric Philosophy we can re-pattern our mind into finding empowerment in every situation.    This leads us into increased vitality and extended periods of peace, joy, love, pleasure and creativity in our lives.

The highest and truest purpose of Tantra is to cultivate the realization of Oneness. This realization is what we refer to as “enlightenment”, which simply means freedom from suffering.

Couple Sessions

In a couple session you will discuss your desires and intentions with your Tantrika to discover the focus of energy. 
Increase Safety ~ Expand Communication ~ Explore Desires ~ Ignite Sexuality

Attention can be directed exclusively towards the connection with your partner or it can be extended into learning to open up intimacy to a 3rd party.  Expanding intimacy and Eros beyond a primary partner is a powerful way to increase pleasure & uncover repressed emotions. 

Tantric Lifestyle Coaching

Let's talk Tantra!  Explore an alternative lifestyle approach that integrates sexuality and spiritually. 

Discover the foundations of Tantra, including self care & personal growth practices, intimacy, and how to expand into Tantric Sex with yourself and a partner.

In coaching sessions we will open up a safe and vulnerable space to explore your dreams and desires in life. Through this exploration you will unveil emotions and thoughts that are limiting you from from getting what you want.

You will learn how to be empowered by any situation, including rejection, through Tantric Redirection.  This space is perfect for discussing past or current relationships,  to release old patterns that keep you stuck.  Learn to master conversations with empathic communication techniques.

Coaching sessions may include some meditation, breath work and body-awareness practices but are mostly focused on communication, inquiry and discussion.

In Person Session - $150 /hr

Online Session - $120 /hr

Tantric Embodiment

Embodiment sessions include Tantric Life Coaching, with a focus on the physical practice of Tantra

In this space we will begin with White Tantra, helping you establish your Solo Practice and a deeper connection with yourself. 

As trust and safety are established within yourself and your Tantrika, you will be able to explore expanded Tantric practices together. You will be guided into Tantric movement and encouraged to connect through sensual touch.  As sexual arousal occurs you will be guided back to presence with your somatic experience through Mindfulness and breathing techniques. 

This practice increases emotional intelligence and expands your ability to stay present when you experience sexual arousal. The space held will increase your capacity to receive and extend love which automatically creates a healing space for you and your partner.

Your Tantrika will create space for reflecting and processing emotions as they arise .  Through these practices you will experience more connectivity with your mind, body and spirit.  As you open your heart and other energy centers you will release lower vibrations such as fear, guilt, shame & grief.  This release will naturally unlock your expression, and increase the flow of peace, joy and love in your life.

In Person Session:
2 hour $425
3 hour $600 

Online Session - $150 /hr

Erotic Devotion

This is an exclusive offering available by invite only from your Tantrika or Mentor. 

 

As you develop an authentic relationship with your Tantrika you will be eligible to expand into Erotic Devotion.

In this session you will drop in through conversation and discuss desires and intentions.  As you connect mentally and emotionally with your Tantrika you will be guided into expanded physical expression.

As chemistry is created and sexual arousal occurs you will learn to hold space and remain meditative in this energy.  This practice creates high levels of ‘feel good brain chemicals’ which increases pleasure & vitality in your body.

As sexual energy is cultivated there will be pauses to reflect and share experiences. This practice will open up a powerful healing space to release any non serving energy or emotions such as fear, guilt, shame and grief that limit your expression.

This practice increases emotional intelligence and your ability to remain calm when sexually aroused. You will learn to own and communicate your desires when holding conversation with a person you are attracted to in every day life.

In Person Session:
2 hour $675
3 hour $850

Online Session - $200 /hr

Tantra Service Benefits

· Connect to Source Energy
· Heal relationships
· Attract your ideal partner
· Increase vitality and stamina
· Create safety in your body
· Expanded self awareness
· Increase emotional intelligence
· Expanded sexual energy
· Unlock your heart space
· Feel compassion
· Activate your pleasure body
· Experience authentic relating
· Release emotions that cause dis-ease
· Increase flexibility and release pain
· Release sexual shame and guilt
· Discover, express, and call in your desires

Embodiment Offerings

· Tantric body work
· Cuddling
· Eye & body gazing
· Yab-Yum & heart on heart connection
· Guided breathwork
· Chakra activation
· Sensual touch
· Play wrestling
· Tantric yoga
· Internal martial arts
· Microcosmic orbit
· Orgasmic meditation (OM)
· Moving meditation
· Sounding and vocalization

 

Coaching Offerings

· Personal development
· Shadow work
· Relationship counseling
· Ignite your sex life
· Opening your relationship
· Communication mastery
· Emotional processing
· Empowerment perspectives
· Dream healing
· Affirmation practices
· Intention setting
· Inner child healing
· Healing ancestral wounding
· Self care and pleasure practice
· Porn addiction assistance

 

 

Sensational Experiences

· Tantric touch
· Smoke cleanse - sage, cedar, palo santo
· Aromatherapy with essential oils
· Rose water spritz
· Cold or hot play
· Tickling
· Blind folding
· Sensual eating
· Spanking
· Biting
· Oiling

**Disclaimer** The Studio X DOES NOT Offer Prostitution in ANY FORM

Prostitution is the crime of willfully engaging in sexual intercourse or a lewd act with someone else in exchange for money or something else of value.

All prices shown are for sessions in Santa Barbara. Sessions outside of SB can be discussed and are offered at an adjusted rate.

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Yang, sacred masculine energy, represents Shiva, pure consciousness.
Yang is the electrical mental framework that feminine energy flows through.

THE PROPERTIES OF DIVINE MASCULINE

Presence – the ability to be here and now in and out of the body in a full connection.
The ability to penetrate – the life, the feminine and all the inner shadows. Done out of presence, tenderness, sweetness and desire to give.

Clarity – the deep connection to the spiritual worlds and the bringing of precision into this moment, the ability to see clearly the vision and the direction of realization.
Creating a safe and secure space – placing clear and healthy boundaries and structures – creates security while allowing the feminine to be all that it is.

Accurate communication – in listening, in speech, in presence, in sharing and in facilitation, the ability to be authentic and real.

Strength – the ability to fulfill, the power to break through, to give a clear direction and to persevere. The ability to exercise in life.

Testimony – the ability to be neutral and without judgment, deep observation in a moment without identification.
When healthy masculine energy is not nurtured, it becomes damaged and hurtful.

Other Characteristics: Leadership, Action, Reason, Logic, Adventure, Loyalty, Firmness, Protection, Confidence, Focus, Pride, Honor, Efficiency, Power & Caretaker

 

THE SHADOWS OF WOUNDED MASCULINE

Controlling and Planning – In the absence of true presence and trust, male energy tries to control, manipulate, and impose itself on the flow of life.

Confusion, blurring and lack of direction – when the ability to be present is dimmed, there is no direction, nowhere and how to penetrate and it creates paralysis and submission to what happens without the ability to decide and perform. Looks and feels like lack of backbone, damaged integrity and trust.

Aggressiveness – When the presence is weak, the ability to penetrate the world with presence, sweetness and softness is weakened, and then the masculine becomes difficult, aggressive, and even violent, perceptions of war, competition and survival are strengthened, instead of peace, cooperation and creativity.

Chaos and insecurity – when the ability to create clear and healthy boundaries does not exist, a chaotic and threatening space is created, there is nothing to define and create security. This is how exploitation is born, traumas, distrust and fears.
Lies – When the communication is inaccurate and unreal, false life is created. We walk on exhausting, painful paths, entrenchment in the self and inability to grow and develop.

Frenzy and internal noise – when observation and uneducated committees create internal noise, thoughts and feelings dominate the system, movement from the past to the future, lack of peace, satisfaction and quiet, self-judgment and external criticism.

 

Yang characteristics: active, positive, brightness, heaven, south slope, sunshine, fire, hardness, male, dryness, day-time, upward seeking, restless, producing, hot, even numbers, and dominant aspects of things.

Yin, sacred feminine energy, represents Shakti. 
This energy pulsates through you, though you sometimes forget to embrace it.  This is the Magnetic emotional energy.

Aspects Of Divine Feminine

Love – the energy of love itself, the ability to love and be loved, to let love itself flow through us, unconditional and without restrictions.  The cultivation of this energy is found in the heart space, through internal somatic awareness.  Gratitude, compassion and witnessing beauty are key aspects that ignite love.

Devotion and surrender – the ability to let go, to give in to the moment, to energy, to everything that exists, to everything that comes, to be the energy itself and to deepen within it in totality.

Radiation and the ability to develop – the glamor and beauty of life energy, the energy that attracts the masculine, is expressed in nature in radiant viscosity in all of nature.  The agreement and the ability to develop more and more, to delve deeper and deeper into devotion and love.

Energy in motion – all types of emotional energy movements, the ability to be total in them, and the ability to move from one emotional state to another in full devotion.

Acceptance – the ability to accept the existing, to deepen the liberation of the old, and to develop more and receive more and expand the channels of acceptance in our life.

Empathy, Nurture, Fluidity, Softness, Reception, Openness, Devotion, Creative, Compassion, Community, Feelings, Support, Intuition, Life, & Understanding.

The Shadow Aspects Of Wounded Feminine

Conditional love – When love does not reach its depths (mainly due to lack of masculine presence), love is limited to the exchange of energy, give and take games, love with conditions and laws.

Emotional Disconnection – When the ability to surrender and succumb is weakened, trust is weakened, defenses are created, energy rises to the top (heightened thinking and mind), and a disconnect is created from the emotional bodies.

Emotional drama – when feminine radiation is weakened and barriers are created from opening, feminine energy is stuck in pain and suffering and produces more and more painful emotional energy, a feeling of victimization activated and the mechanisms of guilt, applied internally and externally, patterns of revenge and punishment are intensified.

Closure and Opacity – When the ability to accept and receive is closed, the sexual energy is stuck, not renewed, not flowing, everything feels stressed, the detachment from life grows , the patterns of survival are activated and freedom is reduced.

Yin characteristics: passive, negative, darkness, earth, north slope, cloudy, water, softness, female, moisture, night-time, downward seeking, slowness, consuming, cold, odd numbers, and docile aspects of things.

 

White Tantra

White Tantra is focused on your Solo Practice and expanding the relationship with yourself.  This exploration includes spirituality and sexuality.  As you connect deeper with yourself you increase pleasure and empowering energy within.  You will discover and expand your ability to hold space and explore your unconscious mind, emotions and subtle energy body (prana / chi). This is the foundation of Shadow Work, and the key to your spiritual journey and personal growth through The Studio X. You will develop your own embodiment and self care practice through mindfulness, meditation, breath work, sounds, yoga postures, and other Tantric movements. You will learn to connect and feel your energy centers (chakras) and connect with your masculine and feminine polarities to create chemistry within yourself to then bring into your partner practice.

Red Tantra

Red tantra is focused on partner practice which expands into the divine union of Tantric Sex. It focuses on the chemistry between dual energies of masculine and feminine, and how the two unite to form complete divinity. These energies and polarities are available for all people no matter gender identity or sexual orientation.

Tantric Sex is a gateway into a trans-personal experience. This space when held connects you with spirits and the quantum realm. This allows for expanded knowledge, perception, healing energy and creative energy to manifest.

Red Tantra utilizes sexuality as a catalyst to ignite your chakras and circulate vital life force energy through your body. This meditative practice is used as a tool to release repressed emotions and other stagnant energy in your body that can cause unconscious reactions, bad habits and dis-ease in the body.

Red Tantra techniques also involve Tantric Massage as a means to discover the body, remove blockages, heal sexual traumas and reach a higher level of pleasure.

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