Tantric Blog

Fear of Feeling Pleasure and Joy One of my clients has shared a fear of feeling pleasure and joy—for fear of it going away. It’s as if feeling pleasure and joy is worse than feeling nothing at all. If you are numb, then you won’t have to feel the slope of loss and suffering that

Tantra and Wounded Masculine Versus Healed Masculine Over the past few years, I’ve seen a recurring pain point. Men I work with grapple with masculine energy. They wonder what it means to “be a man,” and when to take action and when to soften. They struggle with all the complexities and Karma our society wraps

Debunking the Belief That Women Shouldn’t Speak Their Desires Some women have been taught by older generations of Dakinis and Tantrikas that “speaking your desires to a man isn’t hot,” or isn’t desirable. This misconception is an extension of the suppression of women. It comes from the belief that women must be obedient to men,

How to Please Your Woman… and Make Her Want More Myths and Truths About Giving Pleasure to the Feminine Men often say that they want to learn from me “how to please a woman… and make her want more.” I’ve had clients ask me to teach them how to give oral, to learn the best

Why Vulnerability Can Lead To More Powerful Orgasms Vulnerability can break down walls and barriers that we put between ourselves and the other. It can even break down walls and barriers within ourselves that we didn’t know we had. When we allow ourselves to be real, and let ourselves be seen in our true feelings,