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Fear of Feeling Pleasure and Joy One of my clients has shared a fear of feeling pleasure and joy—for fear of it going away. It’s as if feeling pleasure and joy is worse than feeling nothing at all. If you are numb, then you won’t have to feel the slope of loss and suffering that …
The Power in Getting Dirty One of the most transformational practices I have done is learning how to become one with the earth. To get dirty, to lay naked on the sand, to walk barefoot in the mud. To crawl around on all fours at the beach and growl and roar. This is the power …
There’s Nothing to Figure Out Today I feel vulnerable and tender. I am noticing a feeling of lostness, and my ego/mind wants to figure out what to do. When I catch myself in this thought pattern, I have the opportunity to choose to have compassion for myself and accept how I feel in the moment. …
Tantra and Wounded Masculine Versus Healed Masculine Over the past few years, I’ve seen a recurring pain point. Men I work with grapple with masculine energy. They wonder what it means to “be a man,” and when to take action and when to soften. They struggle with all the complexities and Karma our society wraps …
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Debunking the Belief That Women Shouldn’t Speak Their Desires Some women have been taught by older generations of Dakinis and Tantrikas that “speaking your desires to a man isn’t hot,” or isn’t desirable. This misconception is an extension of the suppression of women. It comes from the belief that women must be obedient to men, …
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How to Please Your Woman… and Make Her Want More Myths and Truths About Giving Pleasure to the Feminine Men often say that they want to learn from me “how to please a woman… and make her want more.” I’ve had clients ask me to teach them how to give oral, to learn the best …
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